Cuanto de nosotros hemos dicho a la persona; “te quiero” o “te amo“. Las hemos dicho tantas veces a uno y otra persona, que a veces lo decimos por decir, ni siquiera lo pensamos y mucho menos razonamos si lo que estamos expresando realmente es un querer o un amar. Sabias que no son iguales, querer es una cosa y amar es otra muy distinta.
Aquí te explicaré la diferencia entreamar y querer, pondré ejemplos y al final haré un pequeño resumen por si no ha quedado del todo claro. Estoy seguro que lo entenderás.
Querer
“Es tomar posesión de algo, de alguien. Es buscar en los demás eso que llena las expectativas personales de afecto, de compañía. Querer es hacer nuestro lo que no nos pertenece, es adueñarnos o desear algo para completarnos, porque en algún punto nos reconocemos carentes.” (Obra: El principito). En otras palabras querer es algo egoísta, lo quieres para ti, sin importarte tanto la otra persona.
Amar
Es un sentimiento altruista y desinteresado, hacia la otra persona, aceptándole tal como es y como la conocemos. Es sentir ese deseo de respetarla(o) todo el tiempo y nunca serle infiel. Si alguna vez le fuiste infiel, entonces no lo amabas.
Por ejemplo, si le dices a una persona “te quiero“, le estás diciendo que te gusta su compañía y quieres que esté contigo a tu lado, es el deseo de querer poseer esa persona, puede ser que se lo digas a tu pareja, familiar o amigo. La verdad que querer puede traducirse como algo egoísta y posesivo, donde solo importas tú.
En cambio amar es dar todo, es ser altruista, eres capaz de dejar ir a esa persona, para que sea feliz. Es dar hasta tu propia vida por que esa persona sea feliz, un ejemplo son los padres, capaz de dar sus parte de su cuerpo y hasta su vida, por ver a sus hijos vivir. Otro ejemplo son algunas parejas, que se respetan, se esperan a la distancia, son capaces de dar lo poquito que tienen para que el otro este bien.
Vídeo que te explica mejor lo que es querer y amar.
Espero te haya servido la información, compártela y déjanos tu comentario.
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I saw the show on Sunday, Oct. 12. Great show. I went on Sunday afternoon, because I knew that might there might be a smaller crowd than on Friday or Saturday. Indeed. There was a one to one correspondence between the audience and the cast. I felt pressure to provide proper feedback for the cast since I was the only one sitting on the the left side of the house. I hope I did my job as an audience member as well as the cast did their jobs. Jerome Gooslin
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Photon is back possibly? Awesome! My cousin used to play all the time at the Photon in Arlington Heights, IL back in the day. He took me with him in the summers when I would go up to visit and I got hooked on laser-tag type games. I live just down in the Oklahoma City area; is there a website or something where I can keep up with more information on the progress of this? Mohammed Chadbourn
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